Chioma
How It All Beganβ¦
I joined the Nigerian Red Cross Society in November 2023, not because I planned to be an active member, but because I wanted to enjoy some benefits during NYSC camp, especially getting a good PPA. π As a sharp girl who doesn't like stress, I registered in my church before registering for NYSC. Little did I know that God had a bigger plan for me!
I eventually fell in love with the society, remained a member even after my service year, and became one of the executive members. π€β€οΈ
Fast-forward to June 2025, I met my father-in-law for the first time during our Red Cross meeting. Unknown to me, he was our Commandant's father! After the meeting, I noticed he was still around, so I informed our Commandant, not knowing who he was. My Commandant smiled and said, "That's my father!" I was stunned!
As the man came closer, he looked at me and said, "I will marry you!" π³π Before I could recover from the shock, he repeated, "I will marry you for my last born."
He asked for my name and where I was from. When I told him I was from Imo State, he excitedly called his son and asked about me.
His son, my Commandant, quickly assured him that I was a good girl from a reputable family and that he had made me his secretary because he admired my character.
When I got home, I told my mum, "Mummy, I don marry husband oo!" πβ€οΈ We laughed about it and moved on, not knowing that it was the beginning of something beautiful.
Fast-forward to September 2025. My Commandant had been trying to arrange a meeting with me, but I kept postponing because I was busy with work and preparations for my late grandma's burial. Continue to rest peacefully, Grandma. π₯Ίβ€οΈ
When we finally met, he asked for my permission to give my number to his brother, regardless of my relationship status then.
At first, I hesitated, but then I thought, "Is it not just a phone number? If it doesn't work, I can always cut it off!" π So, I agreed.
He advised me to pray about it and trust God to lead us if it was His will.
Two days later, on that faithful morning, Nnam called me, and that was how our love journey officially began. β€οΈ
In November, he came around for his brother's baby's dedication and decided to surprise me without telling me he was coming. π After church, I went home to prepare Sunday lunch before returning to his brother's house for the celebration.
When I arrived, I was looking for his wife and baby so I could greet them. His brother noticed and asked if I was looking for his wife. When I said yes, he pointed towards a closed door and told me to go inside.
I opened the door, and guess who I saw? πβ€οΈ NNAM! I was so shocked that I wished the ground would open up and swallow me so I could compose myself before coming back out. π
He immediately stood up, gave me the warmest and longest hug ever, and kept admiring me. From the very beginning, his intentions were clear, and as we got to know each other, we realised that what we had was special.
Looking back, I can only smile because what started as an ordinary decision to join the Red Cross became God's way of leading me to my husband. Indeed, God was putting everything in place long before we understood His plans. π₯Ήβ€οΈ
And now, we can't wait to say "I DO" and begin our forever together!
βHe has made everything beautiful in His time.β β Ecclesiastes 3:11 β€οΈπ
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